Being Responsible
I came to Al-Anon confused about what was and what was not my responsibility. Today after lots of Step work, I believe I am responsible for the following:
- to be loyal to my values
- to please myself first
- to rid myself of anger and resentment
- to express my ideas and feelings instead of stuffing them
- to attend Al-Anon meetings and keep in touch with friends in the fellowship
- to be realistic in my expectations
- to make healthy choices
- to be greatful for my blessings
I also have certain responsibilities to others:
- to extend a welcome to newcomers
- to be of service
- to recognize that others have a right to live their own lives
- to listen not just with my ears, but also with my heart
- to share my joy as well my sorrow
(from courage to change, one day at a time from Al-Anon II, page 85)
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